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Patience is a virtue, but don’t let the lack of something so small as a text message stop you from enjoying an entire 24 hour period due to sheer stress! Well, you are what you eat, you are the energy you release into the universe, you are your own worst enemy. The reason I ask is because your layout seeems different then most blogs andd I’mlooking for something unique. I support them. I will adjust to suit their requests. Ugh, this guy is so not worth texting anymore because he’s not even making an effort! When they are in deep trouble they will text and call me and talk to me and then when they are done I won’t hear from them for another 2/3 years. Being call screened or not having one’s texts returns is like going to someone’s has with 3 cars in front of it, making it obvious that they are home but ignoring the door bell. In this category, you sort of like the person, but really couldn’t give a shit about their existence either way, if you feel like it you’ll message them back, if you don’t , you won’t but no fucks will be given about how they feel about your reply or lack thereof. When you take action to keep busy and not focus or wait on that text reply, you are putting the power into your hand, where it should be. Some times they will respond if they have some time to fill, and other times you cease to be a priority. This person is your neighbor, and she didn’t bother to try telephoning, or coming over and knocking on your door. People who don’t respond are just plain rude. But people still dont seem to respond to me. Not responding degrades a relationship over time. DETACH! Do NOT text again until you receive a reply. I personally deserve much better. Old school yes, but who says that we have to behave like Pavlov’s dogs…answering to the bell all day long. I do make time for everyone in my life, even if it’s for only a short time. I had a mate, I was there for him a lot in thick and thin, to a point my ex broke up with me. If they are not a texter (usually they’re in a committed relationship and you’re trying to be friends, they’re working, or have kids) then when you believe they have a free moment after a few days (few is 3 not 2) call them and ask them to hangout or whatever you want from them. What do i do? I’m only 13 so please excuse my grammar mistakes or wrong spelling. “How could you even FATHOM saying to a friend that I did not get back to them in 3 days!!!!!! Making us feel like pieces of shit over it is wrong. Plus, I feel when you’re friends with someone at some point you can have a conversation. I have virtually no understanding of programming but I was hoping to start my own blog in the near future. You’d think that sending a quick text message to someone would be easy and care-free, but NOPE. After HS, we did fun stuff together. They don’t know your struggle unless you put yourself out there. She won’t text me back know, so she’s getting back at me. Not getting a text reply back in a timely manner is the rudest thing ever!! So, perhaps another reason for non-response is that the texter’s texts are just self-serving and draining. Outside of these are not necessary. As a friend would same someone else’s 911 its necessarily my 911. Whereas someone you barely know will not know you and many don’t respect you right off the bat.. 3. I use WordPress with a custom design theme. AND THIS: “text like you would talk to them in person, dont just stop, because its like a person walking away from physical conversation”. Its not a friendship at that point anymore, if they make no effort to contact you, then even as hard as it may be to let go, they already have. However, we all know that’s NOT what we are talking about here. Okay so the guy I like said he was sick and the day after I did not see him at school so I texted him hey are u still sick I hope ur okay and he seen but never replayed and after that I was like well he is sick so I brushed it off and than he got on twenty minutes ago but did not say any thing so what does it mean. Plus, Psssh dare for anyone to call me rude. Today’s world people have phones with them all the time. I have an issue where my friend who I’ve had a regular texting relationhip with for 3 years has suddenly stopped responding for no apparent reason. If someone can’t handle it on the other end, they can be assertive enough and tell me. I can’t really believe what I am reading; I don’t respond to texts regularly. It’s because if you sent a third text she will back-rationalize that if she hasn’t replied so far it’s because she didn’t like you (as explained in: Incognito, The Tao of Dating ). I liked number 4. Their silence is sending you a message that you should run for your life and never look back! Tell me about patience. If you want to talk to your girlfriend/boyfriend, why shouldn’t you? ? No friends, just me and my hobbies, Something tells me that you are too good of a guy to become evil Dan! You will be answering a text from a business that has a text-enabled landline to book a pedicure, schedule a haircut, reschedule a dental appointment, order a meal, make a reservation. If you are someone they want to speak to, they will get to you. F&!K MY LIFE. How often did you not answer you landline back in the day??? How in the heck have you convinced yourself of that?? Are you asking yourself what are a few normal, everyday reasons for failing to respond to a text message? I feel most people now have things in reverse, they will be responsive and completely engrossed with strangers, many are very casual about giving out their number and wasting hours texting. I have been waiting for 2 1/2 hours for my friend to reply back to me because we are supposed to go to the movies in 3 hours and I still need her to tell me if she can come. There is no response to this question in the report. if they can’t do it, they shouldn’t take that job). That is a great point! Sad, but true. amzn_assoc_ad_type = "smart"; Cell phones are used mainly for personal texting, rather than working. Here the lady asks her friend (presuming) if she wants to go hang out or not. One day I knew she was going to be busy, as was I, so all I sent her was a text to say “good morning.” The next day, she texted me asking why she hadn’t heard anything from me and if everything was okay. I have started to drop people who act like this – who needs it!! amzn_assoc_asins = "0062457713,1577314808,0060628626,1401953115"; i’m not stupid i know you’re just ignoring me, I found a very simple f&!king solution for this motherf&!king annoying problem, if the person responds to you, then keep her as a friend, didn’t respond to you F&!KING DELETE HER. Ignore them and play their game and slowly drop tbem. I’ve been completely perplexed in the whole texting world and really don’t follow rules. I sent him a first text after 30 days. 2. Be mentally well guys, and don’t freak out. Your “friend” isn’t returning your texts because she is a fake friend. Thank you. then they obviously didn’t care about you in the first place to overlook those little details. – They might be upset with you (what did you do this time?) But wait ’til they need something. I’m buzzed, bored and my girlfriend sent me this link because it’s a running joke between alllll of us. texting is a problem, and the people who expect sane people to codependent their illness should really just try to not text for one day. (: In the end, there was no reward. You’re illustrating an extreme case. I would say if someone is truly busy / stuck up then its quite reasonable they reply late. vompliant thank you so much .I have decided if so called friends vant take the to invest the same enrgy in me that i invest in them i have. For many guys, the first reaction when a girl doesn’t text back is to start sending accusing or desperate messages begging for a reason or just a response.. Before we even get to the steps, here’s an extra one: don’t do that.Instead, just follow these five steps to figure out what’s gone wrong and get her texting you again.. Get back to work! I don’t have any time to feel pissed off lol. I totally agree with you Chris, Derek sounds like your typical selfish male(guys are worse at communication usually).. It’s all about him and if he can be bothered making an effort. Thank you for your in-depth comment Derek. I only goof around with my tween daughter by text, to stay in touch when we’re apart, because that is at her level, and I love her. If someone couldn’t talk on the phone because they were at the dentist, or on public transport, and they could only text, would that still annoy you? Many make themselves way too accessible to those that are not even worthy and then wonder why they keep getting mistreated. So I ended it by saying “well, we might as well all just stay home then” I was really disappointed and sad that here we are all out to a family gathering and everyone was messing with their damn phone. That means they have ntn going on or Ntn to talk about nd expect u to entertain them since they have a few mins or hrs to goof off on their phone.Sorry but I’m not the entertainment committee so I refuse to reply to bored ppl…I hate when ppl say hi I’m bored ugh like seriously.. Wow…..these reasons are not very true at all, to me. We don’t! Her excuse was that her phone wasnt on her… Which it always is. We all got lives and hobbies ya know? People have lives to live. Just call… you can glean much more from the hearing your friends/loved ones’ voice, that a text can’t relay. If two texts go unanswered a third text is a big no-no. Oh well. I started no contact after that and completed 30 days no contact. Texting had already started slowing down. I’ve tried ignoring her texts, responding short responses, waiting a long time between texts to respond. She showed nothing but laziness and contempt for you. I would text hey every now and then but finally gave up.. . For me texting is like any conversation and deserves the same respect. If someone got pissed about me not texting back soon enough, I wouldn’t give a flying f*** really. – Wow, how long is your response if you haven’t even finished it yet! As simple as that. I think that this is weird. Most people make silly rules like “wait for 24 hours” or “no longer than 3 days”. I’m glad you asked. Many of us can relate to that frustrating feeling of being ignored! It’s good to hear you say that it’s not about me, on the other hand how do you know? Which one of these apply to you? 1, messages are non sense and unnecessary, others are unimportant that it can wait the day after. I was suggested this blog by my cousin. no, texting isn’t like having a conversation. Your neighbor has no right to hold you hostage by expecting instant replies. I think it’s arrogance. so from that point on they are dead to me. They want you to return their texts instantly when they need something, but they also want to be free to ignore your texts otherwise. I feel people who do not reply within a reasonable time frame, are illiterate, crooked, coward, black heart and they have inferiority complex :(). I always respond to texts or phone calls from family and friends. I always say to people if you have time tonight let me know if its a good time to talk. After a year of not receiving any txt, or call then its time to delefe that persons number. That’s the red flag right there, when you’ve given their silence a pass because of their schedule, then when you know they are free they don’t respond. Keep up the excellent works guys I’ve you guys to blogroll. This gives them time for supper, homework and getting ready for bedtime. Very much a paradox ;(. Actually if not because of my boss required me to have a cellphone, I will never have it again. ugh. well, i must have quite a knack… 3 of my ex boyfriends will not reply if i email or text them. I totally agree!! The intent was there but the energy lacked and won. It’s actually a job site safety hazard. Either way just don’t respond to them and when they finally do drop u a line just wait a few days and be simply uninterested in whatever it they know how it feels to not matter.. A handful of times I have hung out with someone who is in my field. If you are dating someone or have grown close to someone, don’t start falling victim to that nonsense that says you can’t text again or try to call just because you should wait a certain period of time. I am not sure whether this post is written by him as no one else know such detailed about my trouble. Anyone that does question that is bang out of order for doing so, as soon as I get a message I will reply, or if busy I say I will reply asap and why. Thank you, Chris, for saying everything I’ve been thinking about this topic! Yes, some people are not big texters. Is that such a nerve-wracking process? But, it’s been around a month since we’ve both got back from our trips. Still, despite that, I told him, “Your text was fine. What you said is lame. Perfect. people think they are SO IMPORTANT and BUSY that they can only afford a TEXT message. I wish you an amazing week! I’ve actually texted people who won’t return my texts in even a week with something that’ll benefit them–notice of a job opening, for example. A way to give yourself an edge. . That is wrong, but I will work on that…and that’s to those who constantly talk to me. Make yourself happy in the meantime. Your worth is never going to be defined by a guy that may or may not be taking your friendship for granted. So, I know that when I send a text she is reading it right away. If someone is being really abusive or threatening you, you wouldn’t reply to them. It was more to save my ego and sanity at that point. By not responding, they are sending you a message that they’re not willing to invest in your relationship nor reciprocate. Have a great week and thanks for stopping by (: Sounds like you are a great communicator Max. I think we have become way to complicated with rules etc. I think that technology is good and bad. Like someone else said, she sure had everyone hopping and skipping when there were a few baby’s coming in her family. He did bring up during that week that we should hang out again soon. I just spontaneously texted “Don’t let the door hit your a$$ on the way out. As other people have mentioned most people have their phones in plain view of them. Life is simply too short. I also face such problem.I am trying to covience myself not to take it heart.But i always replied to them when they pinged me.I try myself to be there for them when they needed me,But no one responeded me,except only one friend.He was there for me always.what is the problem with me.what should i change with me. When you’re a guy, you’re more likely to get laid by rarely responding. can’t even reply a ok? Take a look at your own texting habits and discover Now if you get no date confirmation from her, or no response text at all, chances are pretty high she won’t show up. You can’t demand trust or respect from others if you don’t demand yourself to follow through accordingly. Move forward with your day, and if he’s going to reply, you will find out eventually. The Rule of Response: Always respond Before I have them shut off texting, I’m emailing and calling my friends to let them know, so they won’t take it personal. 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